Jackie & Pat

Thursday, July 3, 2025 • Southgate, MI
84 Days To Go!

Jackie & Pat

Thursday, July 3, 2025 • Southgate, MI
84 Days To Go!

Our Story

How We Met

Pat: A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away...


Jackie: Also known as The Fighting Fit three years ago.


Pat: I thought you were cool with your Star Wars shirt and you thought I was the dreamiest.


Jackie: Did I?


Pat: You did. You told me.


Jackie: Was I there for that conversation?


Pat: No, but you were saying it with your eyes. I heard it.


Jackie: Sounds legit.


Their story began in the early summer of 2021, when Jackie walked into her kickboxing class and found Pat at the bag next to hers. He liked her Star Wars shirt...


Pat: Because Star Wars is the best.


Jackie: Debatable.


A great friendship blossomed over that year, and when the time was right, their friendship evolved into a loving relationship.

The Proposal

Jackie: Picture it. Sicily, 1923...


Pat: What?


Jackie: :D


It was May 1st, 2024. With Jackie's new work schedule, she could only go to CrossFit with Pat and their friends on Wednesdays.


Pat showed up late to class due to traffic and was slightly on edge. Jackie thought nothing of it, chatting with everyone and having a good time.


At the end of class, they went to take the group picture.


Jackie: I just want to say I was sweaty and tired and ready to go home after that workout, so I was just waiting for him to take the picture.


Pat: And I just want everyone to know that I chose this date specifically for Jackie. May 1st is the date that Aragorn was crowned King in Lord of the Rings. Boom! Mic drop!

And by popular demand, the proposal video! Or what Jackie refers to as, "When your boyfriend always goes for the laugh so you think he's joking until he pulls out a ring!"

Our official first date (we looked nice) :D

August 10, 2022

Our official first date (we looked nice) :D
Wyandotte Wine Crawl 2022

August 19, 2022

Wyandotte Wine Crawl 2022
Our first concert: Jelly Roll & Shinedown!

September 22, 2022

Our first concert: Jelly Roll & Shinedown!
Dinner at Ford's Garage before the Candlelight Halloween concert

October 20, 2022

Dinner at Ford's Garage before the Candlelight Halloween concert
Meeting Pat's extended Calender family

November 12, 2022

Meeting Pat's extended Calender family
Jackie's 38th birthday party

April 22, 2023

Jackie's 38th birthday party
Annual Star Wars appreciation

May 03, 2023

Annual Star Wars appreciation
First anniversary at Sugar Factory

May 06, 2023

First anniversary at Sugar Factory
Gatlingburg/Pigeon Forge trip with the kids!

June 17, 2023

Gatlingburg/Pigeon Forge trip with the kids!
Monroe County Fair 2023

August 03, 2023

Monroe County Fair 2023
Jackie's 20-year high school reunion

August 12, 2023

Jackie's 20-year high school reunion
On our way to the Jelly Roll concert with friends!

August 17, 2023

On our way to the Jelly Roll concert with friends!
Rowan and Sarah's wedding

August 26, 2023

Rowan and Sarah's wedding
Pat meeting the Cowan cousins

August 30, 2023

Pat meeting the Cowan cousins
Pentatonix concert at DTE/Pine Knob!

September 03, 2023

Pentatonix concert at DTE/Pine Knob!
Last day of Iron Bandogs Nationals weekend

October 01, 2023

Last day of Iron Bandogs Nationals weekend
Dressing all fancy for our friend's wedding

October 13, 2023

Dressing all fancy for our friend's wedding
Riverside Iron Bandogs Halloween Party

October 27, 2023

Riverside Iron Bandogs Halloween Party
Halloween

October 31, 2023

Halloween
Running errands and Starbucks bougieness

November 05, 2023

Running errands and Starbucks bougieness
Christmas at the Mall of Monroe

November 09, 2023

Christmas at the Mall of Monroe
Thanksgiving Day Bootcamp

November 23, 2023

Thanksgiving Day Bootcamp
Thanksgiving at Suzy & Eddie's

November 23, 2023

Thanksgiving at Suzy & Eddie's
Cougars & Sugar Daddies CrossFit Competition

December 02, 2023

Cougars & Sugar Daddies CrossFit Competition
Holiday Nights at Greenfield Village

December 15, 2023

Holiday Nights at Greenfield Village
New Year's Eve!

December 31, 2023

New Year's Eve!
Pat's 42nd birthday party

January 12, 2024

Pat's 42nd birthday party
Curling! It was freezing!

January 20, 2024

Curling! It was freezing!
Still cold but we look good

January 20, 2024

Still cold but we look good
Valentine's Day 2024

February 14, 2024

Valentine's Day 2024
DTW waiting to get on our plane for our first cruise!

March 15, 2024

DTW waiting to get on our plane for our first cruise!
Boarding the cruise ship!

March 16, 2024

Boarding the cruise ship!
Hanging out at the Pig & Anchor

March 18, 2024

Hanging out at the Pig & Anchor
Aruba!

March 19, 2024

Aruba!
Aruba on the Jolly Pirate Ship

March 19, 2024

Aruba on the Jolly Pirate Ship
La Romana

March 21, 2024

La Romana
Carnival Cruise's Formal Night and the White Party

March 22, 2024

Carnival Cruise's Formal Night and the White Party
Proposal

May 01, 2024

Proposal
Second anniversary

May 04, 2024

Second anniversary